The sexual adventures of Lacey and Ricky – Chapter 11

Chapter 11: Momma knows best

As we sat at the dinner table, mom looked at me over her famous chicken pastry, or what was left of it. “I was proud of the Level of maturity you displayed today and how you handled the incident with Lacey. It could have turned out badly. Finding out that we are having sex could have wrecked your relationship with her and she could have made a lot of trouble if she let it be known to others that I am having sex with you.

I have tried to teach you to be honest and today you see first hand how that pays off,” mom commented seriously. “Over the past week I have had some doubts and regrets about our relationship, afraid of what it might be doing to your personal development. Hearing you explain things to Lacey has given me confidence that you are mature enough to handle it, though. For now I am very happy with the way things are going. Not to mention, I am very satisfied with your performance in the bedroom.” She blushed and smiled demurely. Her dimples made their appearance and she looked ten years younger.

I met mom’s gaze and felt the seriousness of the situation. “Thanks, mom. It is because I am standing on the shoulders of a giant. You are such a great teacher, and I appreciate it.” We both smiled.

Mom asked, “You and Lacey were gone for a long time when you left the house this morning. Can you tell me how it went?”

“Oh sure, mom. Lacey does have doubts and we talked about them a lot. She is worried about jealousy, now and in the future. She worries that she will not be able to measure up to you. With two beautiful, competitive ladies in my life, I will have to communicate with both of you and not take either of you for granted. But I will need to be careful to maintain privacy between you two and not share details of what goes on, from one lady to another. Women can be so curious!” We both laughed at this.

Then mom looked away, deep in thought. “What are you thinking, mom?” I asked. “Oh, I was just reflecting on your comment about both of us being competitive and jealous. I had not thought of myself in that way, but I guess you are right. Jealousy is poison in any relationship, but especially where two women are involved. We will need to be careful. But I want you to know that I love Lacey and think she is right for you.”

I continued, “I told Lacey that I love both you and her, and both in a sexual way. But I also told her that someday you will find a boyfriend and that our relationship may have to change and possibly come to an end, sexually. In her mind that puts her as number one ahead of you.” I said. “Yes, and that is as it should be. I am so glad that you had that discussion with her.”

“Mom, there’s something else that I need to ask you about,” I began uneasily. “Lacey and I have this little problem, you see.” I paused, wondering just how to say it. “We have talked a lot about it and just don’t know where to go from here. We finally agreed together to ask you if you have any ideas that might be a help to us.” I paused, then began again, “Well, you know that Lacey is a virgin?” “Right” mom agreed. “Well, she would like to lose her virginity with me, and we have tried a couple times.” another pause. “But it hurts her too much and we can’t do it. Now it’s getting to the point that Lacey is scared and uptight about it, which I fear is making it worse. Can you tell me, how was it for you?” I asked.

Mom was silent for a few moments, thinking. She thought back to long ago, she had been sixteen. She went on a date with a guy, she thought maybe his name was Brad? He was some kind of jock, maybe from the football team? She had not planned on having sex with him, not on the first date for sure, but he had been so eager. At least he had a condom. It was dark and cramped in the back seat of his dad’s car. He was so clumsy and couldn’t figure out how to get it in. First he was probing around too high, hurting me. I tilted my hips to help him. Then he went too far back and almost stuck it in my ass. Finally I got hold of his dick myself and put it in the right place. Then he jammed it in so hard and fast. It hurt like hell, but the pain did not last long. And neither did he. I was glad it did not go on too long. I did bleed quite a bit and made use of a sanitary napkin in my purse. He got rid of me as soon as he could that evening, and we never dated again.

Finally, mom came back to the present. “Sorry, I was just thinking. The guy that I lost my virginity with was very clumsy and shoved it in hard and fast. It hurt a lot, but only for a moment. I think I understand why it is so hard for Lacey,” she said thoughtfully. “Come with me.” And she got up and led me by the hand to the couch in the den.

We sat down and she got the Sexual Health book from a drawer. “Guess I will need to return this in a couple days. I don’t want to face old Ms Cratchet at the library with late fees for this.” We both had a laugh. Mom turned several pages, looking for a specific illustration. She paused at a drawing with a side view of a vagina, illustrating the internal structures. By now I was pretty familiar with them from mom’s lessons with me. She pointed to an area near the opening of the vagina. “This is called the hymen,” She began. “It is a thin membrane just a little ways back in a girl’s vagina. It has an opening in it to allow for menstrual flow, but not large enough to allow the insertion of a man’s penis. The size of the opening varies with different girls, most can insert a tampon or a small finger, at most. The first time a girl has sex, this membrane is torn to allow entrance of the penis. It does hurt and there can be some bleeding. I suspect that when you tried to enter Lacey, you may have approached slowly and gently? That would make it hurt worse than a quick thrust.”

I was getting excited. Mom is a genius! She does understand our problem. “Yes! That’s exactly right,” I exclaimed!

Mom continued, “problem now, is that Lacey is nervous and intimidated about a penis going in and causing pain. She is probably clenching which will make it much worse. You will need to handle this carefully as it could cause deep, psychological scars. You seldom hear of a woman who develops a long term committed relationship with a man who takes her virginity.” She said, thoughtfully. “I might need to reach out to a friend for some advice with this. Do you think that would be OK?”

“I think that will be alright” I said. “Lacey was thinking that she might need to see a doctor for help. Is that what you are thinking?” I worried. “Not quite” Mom replied. “I have a friend that is a registered nurse and works in a urology clinic. I am not sure if she is home right now. Seems I heard she was going on a Caribbean cruise this week, so I might not be able to reach her until she returns.