Grandma Amazing at 70

I hired a full time home maker when she was released from the hospital, but that still left her unattended at night and the weekends. Being right handed, Grandma struggled with daily functions using her left side. Since both of us lived alone, I committed to take care of her because she raised me since I was 8. That was the least I could do.

EARLY YEARS

My parents both died when their car was t-boned by a truck racing through a red light. I was in school at the time. My Grandma took me in to keep each other company since Grandpa died from cancer the year before. Losing her husband and then her daughter one after the other completely devastated her. I remembered Grandma rarely smiled for years, unlike the Grandma I knew before. But we at least had each other.

My father was the youngest of 4 from his parents. My mother and her mother didn’t seem to get along very well with their in-laws. After my parents died, they became more distant because they were kept busy taking care of their other grandchildren. Being the smallest of the bunch, my older cousins often picked on me. So I only saw them a few times a years during the Grandparents birthday parties, etc.

Grandma was kind of formal and strict raising me. Looking back I now know she was focused on my future. She supervised my homework and kept firm schedules during the week. I enjoyed movie nights in the weekends when I got to choose from interesting titles. The choices progressed from cartoons to Disney and on. We always cuddled and I loved her soft body holding me during the movies.

HIGH SCHOOL

We visited a physician one day. After I was finished I stood around in the room when Grandma lifted her t-shirt and her bra to be examined. That was the First Time I saw this amazing pair and I couldn’t stopped staring. I was so happy that they didn’t send me to the waiting room prior. At that time I just began noticing the ladies but I really didn’t know why. Eventually I found out she used C and D cups. At 54, her breasts were firm without sag. She gave birth at 19. My mother also married early.

Ever since that day I really looked forward to our movie nights when we cuddled and I purposely rested my head on her soft pillows.She never reacted nor stopped me but I didn’t dare anything else. The movies eventually progressed to include some love stories with tame love scenes and my erection became obvious. Still Grandma just ignored me and said nothing. She knew I was getting my sex education in school and maybe she was not comfortable teaching me.

I found my high school sweetheart in Grade 11 and enjoyed life with her. She was a new Asian immigrant that knew nothing about sex. We started exploring each other during Grade 12 when we were both 18. Grandma liked my sweetheart also so she visited often and ‘studied’ with me in my room. Grandma likely knew what was going on but said nothing and made great meals for the 3 of us. Sometimes I wondered if I was attracted to Asian girls because of Grandma’s heritage.

UNIVERSITY and beyond

I attended the local University and stayed at home to minimize costs since Grandma had to support my education even with a scholarship. I worked part time weekends and full time summer to supplement. After graduation with distinction at the top of the class, I received the best scholarship to grad studies far away from home. Grandma urged me to broaden my horizons and fly as high as I can. So at 22, I was on my own, far far away from Grandma. We of course kept in touch and I always went home for Christmas and couple of weeks in the summer since graduate study was full time all year.

I was a young Ph.D. with a teaching post before turning 27. Grandma came to my graduation and she was so proud. She almost couldn’t stop crying. She missed me and I missed her too so I applied to posts near home and eventually got an instructor position. Grandma was so happy but insisted I live on my own so I found a place near campus.

TODAY

After dinner I said: ‘Grandma, would you like to have a movie night for old time sake?