Couples Therapy Ch 1

Chapter One


My wife and I have been married for 9 yrs. Our sex life has been what most would consider cold with no passion. I have understood though and that’s why I have hung in there. She was sexually abused from the time she was a little girl and that has caused her a lot of issues when it comes to sex. This has been very frustrating for me because I want so much to make love to my wife and can’t because she feels so dirty about sex and just wants it over with as quick as possible. Its so sad because she is beautiful and has never learned the pleasures making love can bring. This is the story of what saved our marriage and taught her to feel like a woman should in the bedroom.

I was getting pretty depressed after 9 yrs of trying everything I could and reading every article I could find to get Renee to open up and relax to enjoy the bedroom. Renee has tried but her issues have been to deep. She does want to overcome this and learn, as she just turned 41 and has never experienced really making love. For a long time I felt it was our age difference as I am 14 yrs older than her. I always say we are the Beauty and the Beast, Renee looks at least 10 yrs younger than her age and has a beautiful and sexy body. I on the other hand am just the opposite. She is 5’10” tall with long legs, long blonde hair, 38d and a perfect round ass. She
has requested to go to a sex therapy class for couples and that was what this story is about.

We arrived at the class a little early and both of us were nervous cause we had not done anything like this before. This was a big step for her and I was proud that she would make this effort. The classroom had a half dozen mats spread out on the floor with one up front by its self. We were the second couple to arrive and were greeted by the therapist, a beautiful woman in her mid to late 30’s with brown shoulder length hair and green eyes. She introduced herself as Karen and walked us to the mat next to the other couple. They were in their late 20’s and very well looking and clean cut.

With in the next 15 minutes all the couples had arrived. Karen stood in the front of the class and had us all take turns introducing ourselves and tell our stories as to why we were in the class, and what we wanted to get out of it. After that Karen passed out an outline of what to expect over the next 6 sessions.

Karen started out explaining how important passion is in the bedroom and how it brings couples closer together and builds a stronger bond between them.