A Marriage Worth Saving

A Marriage Worth Saving




In the beginning our sex life was great, at least once a day. As the first year came to an end, so did our sex life. It fell to once a month and then once every three months. Every time I would bring up the subject she would get angry and it would start a fight. I decided it was not worth bringing it up and just dealt with it as best I could. Six years later and it was not improving at all. This is the story of what I did to try to save our marriage.

Lexis is 14 years younger and very pretty and quite sexy with her long legs and D cup breast that are as firm as a woman in her early twenties. I have always considered myself lucky to have a wife such as her. At 5’10” tall with her long blonde hair she is a head turner. I could not help but feel that it was our age difference that was the problem. I did a lot of thinking about it and it really hurt inside that she was never enjoying the pleasures that great sex had to offer. It would bring tears to my eyes at the thought of her missing out for the rest of her life.

After giving it much thought and I mean much thought, because I have always been a jealous man, I came up with an idea. I sat her down one night and explained to her how I felt and that because my love for her was so deep and strong that I would make a sacrifice for her. I told her that I felt it was because of the age difference that we had no sex life. That I did not turn her on and was more of a father figure to her because her dad was never there for her. I said “I would be willing to let her have sex with another man as long as I could be there to watch.” I explained, “as long as I am there I will not feel it is cheating and at least I can see you enjoy sex.”

Lexis did not understand at all. With a loud voice and angry look on her face she objected, “How could you love me and want to see me have sex with another man? That is just perverted and not normal.”

I explained again to her, “I love you so deeply that it hurts me at the thought of you going thru life and not enjoying sex and all the pleasures in the bedroom. It will be hard on me because I want to be the one that gives you that pleasure but I would rather see you have the pleasure than you to never have it. And again as long as I am there I won’t feel as though you are cheating on me. You will always be in control and I will be there for you and if you want me to participate I will and if not I will just enjoy watching you have hot sex.” I left it at that and she did not speak to me for several days.

“So Randy,” she blurted at me as I was sipping my morning coffee, “you honestly think you could watch me have sex with another man and not get jealous and upset?”

“I know it is not going to be easy but I will adjust to it because I love you so much Lexis I just do not want you to miss out. You have missed out for 6years now and I am afraid that sooner or later you are going to cheat on me because of it. I am hoping this will be the remedy for that and save our marriage. I will do whatever it takes to make you happy. I can’t make you be turned on by me and I can’t change the things that cause it. I know that you love me but you just do not have passion for me and I know that a woman needs that.”

“If I were to say yes to this there would have to be certain conditions and rules.